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A Guide for Men of YAHWEH
 It is the nature of things that man should take unto himself a wife, and the Law decrees the need of man for woman. But not every kind of wood is fit to make an arrow, and not every woman makes a suitable wife.
 Examine carefully the women of your acquaintance. Choose not hastily, nor fix your mind suddenly, for upon a proper choice depends your future contentment and joy and the welfare of your children.
 Choose not according to face and form alone, for these will pass, though fairness of face and proportion of figure are not to be disregarded.
 Observe your chosen one and consider her in your solitude. If her mind is over occupied with dress and adornment, if she laughs too much and talks too loud, if she has a roving foot for pleasure and a bold eye for men, if her manner is crude and her tongue inclined towards lewdness, then though her beauty were as that of the sun disc itself and her form shaped to perfection, turn from her path and set your heart against her charms. Dismiss from your mind the alluring phantoms of the imagination.